Attitude is Everything

When you are having a bad day try to keep one thing in mind. Attitude is everything. If you believe the world is falling down on you then you won't see the light that is in front of you.

Many times I have had to repeat to myself and tell myself that it will get better. When I keep that in mind I find that it does get better. The times I don't succeed at keeping that in mind is when the light at the end of the tunnel seems to be the farthest away.

There have been many times I thought my world was falling in on me. Granted it has been a few years. Which is probably good. The last major crises I had was pretty bad and screwed my head up extremely bad. Finally I think I am recovering from that.I am not ready to go into all that publicly, but lets put it this way believing it would end kept me going. It was telling myself eventually I would heal that kept me sane. Also the last few years of no drama probably has helped. Weird as it may seem the last 3 years are the most drama free, stress free times I ever remember in my life.

The thing is that life has its ups and downs. Dwelling on the bad times may make you miss the good ones. Yes, I have dated some guys that I wish had never crossed my path and I hope never cross yours, but each one gave me good memories and taught me something. I try to keep that in mind when I look back at the memories. During the bad times I kept it in my mind that as long as I remained strong and kept believing it would get better that eventually things were going to be better. At least for me they were going to get better. The thing is things have gotten better.